His Secret Obsession is a new relationship guide from bestselling author James Bauer. It is designed to help women who have ever had men to retire and are reluctant to commit to long-lasting relationships.

The solution the book offers is to use your husband’s heroic instincts.

The heroic instinct boils down to the fact that men want meaningful lives and want to be respected for their efforts.

Most importantly, it reinforces the heroic instinct about relationships: Men want to be a hero to the women they love and care about.